Tips for You on Hooking up with Someone

Probably you are just one of the major one night hookup hunters. Nowadays, increasingly people are more into one night dating than serious relationships, because they are in no hurry in constituting a family, nor in making a baby. Short term relationships just seem to be a better option for them in which they can meet their sexual desire while keep a free lifestyle. That is also one of the reasons why so many hookup apps are thriving in the market. That brings the first tip I would like to give you on hooking up with someone.

If you are going to hookup with someone online, be clear with what you want in your profile. I know you are on a hookup app and for this, you assume people here are all looking for one night hookups or nsa relationships, but the truth is not that exactly. With limited social circle, many people find it is really hard to find someone special in real life, so many serious relationship hunters may also turn to online dating apps. From their perspective, these are not hookup apps, but dating apps. That means they are looking for serious relationships here. Therefore, to save you time and improve your hunting efficiency, it is very necessary to be clear with what you are looking for in your profile, so that people can see it directly when they are interested in you. Don’t ever think about pretending to be in serious relationships. You are wasting your time and also might hurt some feelings.

Be honest with your hookup partners. If you are not into anything more than just a one night hookup with your partner, tell him/her. I know there might be some overlap with the first tip, but I just want to emphasize on it. As one of the victims of those hookup hunters, I was hurt for more than one time. That is just a huge pain in the ass. Just remember, being honest can never be wrong.

Be respectful. Even though this is only a one night dating, that does not mean you should treat your partner as a piece of meat or a tool used to satisfy your sexual desire. Hookup also requires your seriousness and respect. Be gentle and considerate of your partner. If you are set to spend just one night with him/her, make it count. Try to leave him/her with a good memory, but not a night mare.

Be clean. If you are going to take a person into your house, change your sheet, or at least make sure it is clean. This can effectively affect the quality of the hookup experience. Clean up your room. Wash your dirty clothes. Just try to make a good first impression. Who knows you might want a second hookup with that person. Most important of all, if you had another person over for a night yesterday, remember to put his/her belongs away. Even though your partner knows he/she is not the only one, there is no need to clearly demonstrate it.