What do you usually talk about and what do you usually do when you are together? If all your conversations and meetings would end up in bed, then you are pretty much in a hookup relationship. People who are more interested in hooking up with you would tend to lead your conversation towards the sexual direction, because that is what he wants with you. If you find no matter what you planned for the day, you will eventually end up in bed naked with each other, that is a pretty clear sign to show that he only wants to sleep with you and nothing more. On the contrary, if you find you can be together for a day without talking dirty to each other and you didn’t end up in bed, then he might be more into getting to know you more than just sleeping with you.
When did he usually contact you? Will he contact you occasionally besides from when he is horny? If so, he might be interested in maybe developing a serious relationship with you. If not, all he wants is to sleep with you and you mean nothing more than his booty call.
Is he settled for life? When people are settled in their life and job, they would more likely to be open to relationships, because they are qualified to take the responsibility of a family and they are less likely to be afraid of commitment. With things settled in their life, they can focus more energy, time and resources on family. That is why it matters so much to see if he is settled down. If he is still working very hard trying to earn his living, or maybe he doesn’t have a clear goal in his life, he might not be considering having a relationship just yet, because he is not ready.
Does he share with you things about his life and other personal issue? When a guy has real feelings for you, he would want to share more things about himself with you, such as his family, his work, his life, etc. But if you find he barely talks to you about his personal stuff, that might mean he doesn’t care you enough to let you know him, which means he is not into relationships, not with you at least.
Is he curious about you? If a guy likes you, he would want to know more things about you. He would ask questions about you, trying to figure out what kind of person you are and what kind of life you are leading. But if he doesn’t ask much about you, it might be the reason that he doesn’t care.
He has no interest in meeting your friends. If you are not sure how the guy feel about having a serious relationship with you or not, you can try to invite him to meet your friends. Usually when a guy is interested in you, he would be very happy and excited to meet your friends and see what you are like in front of your friends and what kind of person they are around you. But if he doesn’t show much interest and passion in meeting them, he might just want to remain a one night hookup relationship for now.
He never invites you to meet people in his life. For guys, when they meet someone special, they would want to introduce her to his friends. If he never invites you to meet his friends after you hooked up for several times, then he might feel just fine with your current relationship.
No matter where you are going to meet people, in real life or on some popular trans hookup apps, you should know if this person is into relationship or hookup before you actually start to go out with him. Otherwise you might be wasting your time and worst of all, you might get hurt.